Thursday, December 18, 2008

Life is difficult

Life is difficult. Life is full of obstacles, challenges, heart broken, disappointment and upset. Some people apply as life is like a roller coaster. Every little bit of things happen whether is great, happy, and sad or sorrow; is a priceless to go thorough. Life is just like a test and the trial for us to go through. Every little things which we taste, is just a creation of life and see how we handle it. We couldn’t stop the flow of river as well as our life. Nothing is a pause there for us to return and adjust the life to be perfect. A thing happened and is a history for us to remember and a lesson to learn. The experience we gain from the each of the tests we go through might be a way for us to have a better life or a choice for us to see and know. Dealing with those tests is like focusing the difficulties of life instead letting the difficulties overwhelm us. Everyone have their own strength and weakness inside them. It depends on the people how they use their courage and strong mind to accept, fight and knowing the difficulties of life. This is not an easy act or task than just a speech of words or advice. The action which taken might have a lot of difficulties stage to go through. The commitment and effort is easier to say than done. Life is about to change but than again this is depends individual. Some people might still want to stay in illusion and doesn’t want to accept the fact and reality. They rather torturing themselves and living in their own world. The fear, guilt, shame, embarrassment, ego or any form of negative are set on their mind and heart which makes them hard to swallow the reality of what they facing. They are willing to stand still and not going for any act. They are lost and finding excuses not to make any decision. Therefore by creating their own world, they will have an option to blame or making excuses to reshape their thinking which they think this is the way. These people have their own darkness to fight. No one can help them. They are the writer of their own life.
Yes ! Life is difficult and is an opportunity for us step into it with our own decision and stories to write it. How of this stories turn out to be it doesn’t matter at all. What is the matter is the author who creates and writes the stories needs to accept to consequences of the story line. Do not regret of what is written. Think well before it begins and there will be no eraser to remove it off once you start to write.

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